The step-by-step playbook: 500 ready-to-use play plans for sitting with autistic kids and kids with special needs, with what to bring out and what to say written on every page, plus a pricing sheet and a plan to find your first families, so you can sit your first afternoon next week and turn it into a little extra income close to home.

โI would have paid a zillion dollars per hour but I never was able to offer because I couldn't find anyone.โ
โShe was reliable, always on time and always arrived with a smile.โ
Parents of autistic kids say the same thing over and over: finding someone they trust is the hard part. Agencies can't fill the hours, and a sitter who stays, follows the routine and answers her texts is rare. That's why a patient woman nearby can matter so much to a family.
โIt can be extremely difficult to find someone who hits the magic trifecta of trust, competence, and availability.โ
Dad of an autistic daughter, Pittsburgh Parent
Sources: Care.com national and Los Angeles rates (Nov 2026), The Nation, Parent Network of WNY. Examples only. Your rate depends on your area.
School breaks are the hardest weeks for these families. The woman they call is the one they already heard about, and the first family you sit for is the one who tells the other moms.
Enough time to print your first play plans, try one afternoon with a family you know and line up your first paid afternoons before the break, with the next one right behind it.
The Family Intake Card tells you what a child loves and what to stay away from. Every play plan tells you what to bring out, what to say and which one follows. You never stand in the living room wondering what to do for 3 hours.
One afternoon after school or a Saturday morning so a mom can finally get to the store. It fits around your own kids, your job or your retirement. You decide how many families you take.
Sitters for kids with special needs list about $20 to $30 an hour, and more in big cities. Your costs are a few sheets of paper. The pricing sheet shows you what to charge, so you never work for free.
$27 for the Playbook, and the toys and household things a family already owns. A library printer works too. No classroom and no stock. You sit in the family's own home, one family at a time, and you check your state's rules first. After that, your first afternoon pays for itself and more.
These parents need a break all year, and that means a little extra income for you all year. There's always an appointment, a school break or a tired mom somewhere near you.
๐ฅ Appointments ยท ๐ Grocery runs ยท ๐ Date nights ยท ๐ Sibling games ยท ๐ผ Work shifts ยท ๐ด Nap for mom ยท ๐ต Grandparents ยท โช Church friends ยท ๐ Bus stop moms
$20โ30The weekly booking. One child, the same day, the same calm routine.
$200 and upBigger bookings for the families who stay. A higher monthly total, and you know your schedule ahead of time.
Open the Playbook, print a few plans and try them with a child you know. If it isn't for you, send one email within 7 days and we'll refund you in full. No forms, no hard feelings.
They were exactly where you are before the first afternoon.
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Illustrative conversations based on what special needs sitters share online. Individual results vary.
One evening. Read how an afternoon runs, print the Family Intake Card and 10 play plans, and put them in a folder. No planning needed.
A niece, a grandchild or a neighbor's kid, for free. Follow the page and see how quickly 3 hours go by. That's your practice.
The pricing sheet gives you the price. Post with the template, first to people who already know you: friends, church, your old school and your local Facebook group.
Sit down with the parents, fill in the Family Intake Card together and pick a day. Then print the next plan.
That's it. One week. And just like that, you're a sitter families trust, with a little extra income.
Every one of these is in the kit. Same map, same pricing sheet.
After-school afternoon, 3 hoursPays $60โ90
Saturday morning block, 4 hoursPays $80โ120
Date night, 3 hoursPays $60โ90
School break day, 6 hoursPays $120โ180
Appointment cover, 2 hoursPays $40โ60
4-afternoon monthly packPays $240โ360From the first plan you print to your first extra income from it.
A Pinterest board has no order, so you stand there improvising while a child waits. The Map splits an afternoon into 12 moments, from the front door to the parents coming home. The Family Intake Card shows you what this child loves and what to avoid, and you start right there. No guessing and no improvising on the spot.

Settling in, turn-taking, quiet play, moving around, waiting and getting ready to stop. Start with Volume I, the plans for your first afternoons, and go from there. Every plan is one page with what to bring out, what to say and how to change it if a child isn't interested.

Fewer words work better with many of these kids, and it's hard to find them when you're nervous. These cards give you short, kind phrases for the moments that come up every afternoon, so you sound calm and sure of yourself from your very first day.

Sooner or later a child gets overwhelmed. This guide shows you how to keep everyone safe, what to stop doing and when to call the parents. You follow the family's plan, and you always know your next step.

Printable picture cards for choosing, waiting and knowing what comes next. Many kids follow a picture more easily than a sentence. It's the small thing that makes parents ask where you learned this.

What you did, what the child enjoyed, how snack went and anything the parents should know. Parents trust what they can see. One simple page at the door is what keeps a family calling you next month.

Your extra income starts here: what to post, what to say and what to charge to find your first families among people who already know you: friends, church, your old school and your local Facebook group.

What families and caregivers say out loud.

โIf they're good, kind, qualified and will love/like your kid? Whatever the hell they want. Seriously.โ
Parent asked what they'd pay a sitter, parent forum
โIt can be extremely difficult to find someone who hits the magic trifecta of trust, competence, and availability.โ
Dad of an autistic daughter, Pittsburgh Parent column
โSome would say they would love to come and babysit but would never return my texts.โ
Indianapolis mom, in The Mighty
โWe have found that the caregivers often cancel on us and we suspect this is because our son can be quite a handful.โ
Dad of a 4-year-old, Berkeley Parents Network
โhas a warm and caring way and our daughter with special needs liked her from the start.โ
Parent, review on Care.com
โHe gets excited when I tell him she will be coming.โ
Parent, review on Care.com
โI wish I had known that I can have as much control over what families I work with as they have in choosing me.โ
Caregiver, staff reviewReal words from parents and caregivers online, not from buyers of this playbook. Results vary.
No. This is a digital playbook: you get instant access to every plan, card and printable the moment you pay. Nothing is shipped, so there's no waiting and no shipping cost.
Yes, because you're not doing therapy. You're a sitter: you keep a child safe, follow the parents' plan and play. Every play plan tells you what to bring out and what to say. If you're patient with kids and can read a page, you can follow it.
No. The Playbook is childcare and play, and you should never offer it as ABA, therapy or treatment. It doesn't diagnose or treat autism or any other condition, and it doesn't replace a child's care team. If a family has a therapist, you follow what the family tells you.
It depends on where you live. Sitting for one family in their own home usually doesn't need a childcare license, but rules change by state. Caring for children in your own house can need one, and the limits vary a lot. Check your state and town first. Families may also ask for CPR training and a background check. The Playbook is a guide, not a credential, so never present it as one.
There are, and that's the problem. They come in no order, and you end up scrolling while a child waits. You don't need another free list. You need 500 plans sorted by moment, and a plan to turn them into extra income.
It will happen, and it's rarely about you. Before your first afternoon you ask the parents what helps and who to call. The Hard-Moment Guide shows you how to stay calm and keep everyone safe. If anyone is in danger, you call 911 and then the parents.
It depends on your hours. One 3-hour afternoon a week at $20 to $30 an hour works out to about $3,400 to $5,100 a year. Break days and regular families can pay more. Results are not guaranteed and depend on your effort, prices and area.
Families who can't find anyone else. On Care.com, special needs sitters post about $20 an hour on average, and around $26 in Los Angeles. Rates are lower in some towns, and the pricing sheet helps you set yours. Parents say the hard part is trust, so being reliable counts for a lot.
A printer or a library printer, paper, and scissors for the cards. The play plans use the toys and household things a family already owns. If you own those, you can start with the $27 and nothing else.
Plans are written for kids from about 3 to 12. Every child is different, so you go by what the parents tell you and what the child enjoys, not by age alone. Small parts stay away from any child who still puts things in their mouth.
You start with people who already know you: friends, church, your old school and your local Facebook group. Many of these parents have been looking for a long time. The kit gives you the exact posts and messages, and the only thing you've spent is the $27.
Word of mouth, local Facebook groups, parent support groups, churches, libraries and school contacts. The Fill-Your-Schedule Kit shows you where to start in the first 30 days.
Most people haven't, and that's why parents struggle to find help. Start with the family you know best, ask the questions on the Family Intake Card and try your first afternoon with a parent at home. You only take the families you feel ready for.
The plans are already written, so preparing takes as long as pressing print. One afternoon a week is enough to start, and you pick the hours. You decide how many families you take.
MLMs make you buy stock and recruit your friends. This is the opposite: no stock, no recruiting, and you give a tired parent a few hours they can't get any other way.
No. You can sit for as many children as you like and print pages for your own work, but the plans, cards and printables are for you. Sharing or reselling them isn't allowed.
Yes. Checkout is secure, everything arrives in your email the moment you pay, and you're covered for 7 days.
Your purchase is covered for 7 days. Open the Playbook, print a few plans, and if it isn't for you, send us one email and we'll refund you in full.